by Gary Birkett
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The Welsh tradition of giving gifts of carved spoons to symbolize affection is a tradition which has it's roots in centuries long past. The old English expression to "go spooning" is believed to have its' origin in ancient Wales. The oldest surviving example of a love spoon dates back to 1667.

The carver would present a spoon to a lady as a show of interest in her, if the lady accepted the spoon then she accepted his interest. The spoon was the main eating utensil of the day so the giver was offering to take care of the lady. The giver would show his skill by placing different symbols on the wood, each symbol representing a promise. These symbols were drawn from life situations, eg., sailors used nautical symbols, others used images drawn from their environment such as flowers or leaves. Whilst there is much uncertainty about the exact history of the love spoon it is generally accepted that certain designs incorporate specific meanings.Over the years, love spoons have become more elaborate and decorative, they have become collectables. As well as being a gift of affection love spoons are used for all occasions ,from birthdays, weddings, housewarmings and anniversaries to christenings and parting gifts.


Here are some of the spoons symbols and their significance:-

WHEEL-Willingness to work for a loved one. ANCHOR-Steadfast Love

KEY/KEYHOLE - Key to the heart or open door

DIAMOND-Prosperity

LEAVES-Growing Love/Love Evergreen

SINGLE HEART-My heart is yours

DOUBLE HEART-Steadfast love

CELTIC CROSS-Christian Love /Marriage

BELLS-Weddings. Marriage, Happiness

HORSESHOE-Good Luck

FLOWERS- Blossoming love/Courtship

LINKS and CHAINS-Captured Love or Love held safe

CELTIC KNOTS or LOOPS - Love and lives(destiny) intertwined

COMMA SHAPE-Soul SPLIT BOWL-Sharing

SHIPS WHEEL-Steering a course through life